Recently I learn about ‘How to choose the right partner’, from CD series, by Rev. Kong Hee. 12 CDs, with 6 topics. Interesting, yet realistic, and also difficult to do… He was talking about the purpose of partnership (in terms of a man and a woman relationship which involve romance), 8 types of relationships that will not work, 8 fatal mistakes in the relationship, 5 time bombs in compatibility, 7 qualities to find in a partner, and the last one is about compatibility and commitment.I was reminded, that I have a choice… my own choice to choose my own partner… as well as the other person… they have their own choice… it’s all a matter of choice… the choice that will lead you to the commitment of a life time.

When you choose the right partner, then it will be a “heaven on earth”
When you choose the wrong partner, then it will be a “living hell”

Rev. Kong Hee also taught that… marriage or living together… need a certain depth of emotional attach, understanding, communication, availability to each other and some other efforts to do. While trust and respect is the main thing to be there together with love (just exactly like what I have thought for long time - trust and respect)

We are supposed to make intelligence love choice, that we need to be wise, and learn to make the right choice. There’s no a perfect choice… but there is a right choice.

After hearing the teaching, I’m thinking where I am now, and what I’m doing with this ‘looking for the right partner’ process.

The last couple weeks… I learn a new thing… that to make a right choice… it takes time, and it will takes a good consideration, and I shouldn’t be in a rush to choose. I”m slowing down myself as a result… giving a chance to myself to understand further about the whole situation… before I make my important decision to choose what to do…

To know that someone that I love really care about me… it’s a big relieve… and it gives me hopes… and I learn to trust him… that with his own way, he will try to choose fairly for himself… and for the one that he really loves… and that each of us will go towards the ‘heaven of earth’… either together or with different partner for each of us…

To love is a blessing
Though today I should love from a far
But I know that this is not an illusion
It’s a reality, since I can feel the pain
When tears coming out of my heart
Yet I can feel peaceful
To know that he cares
To know that he will be there for me
To know that he will always keeps his eyes on me
May God help each of us
To make each of our decision… on the right time… for the right choices…
So we will reach the ‘heaven on earth’ by the end
Thanks for letting me know that you care